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Relationship
End a relationship that's been struggling for over a year
Long-term — 3+ years
Context
We've been together 4 years. The last year has been more bad than good — repeated conflicts around the same things, a growing sense of distance, and attempts to fix it that haven't stuck. I still care about them. I'm not sure if I'm giving up too early or holding on too long.
Goal
Work out whether this relationship has a realistic path forward, or whether I'm staying out of history and fear of starting over.
Analysis dimensions — pre-configured
Reversibility40
Upside Potential55
Downside Severity60
Downside Likelihood45
Dependency Risk60
Long-Term Alignment50
Sky bars indicate dimensions working in the decision's favor. Gray bars highlight areas of elevated risk or cost.
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