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Wellness
Distance myself from a friendship group that's become draining
Mid-term — 6 months to 2 years
Context
A group I've been close to for years has drifted in a direction that consistently leaves me feeling worse. The dynamic has shifted — there's more negativity, competition, and less real connection. Pulling back would mean losing people I've known a long time.
Goal
Decide whether creating distance is protecting my energy or just avoiding discomfort I could address directly.
Analysis dimensions — pre-configured
Reversibility60
Upside Potential65
Downside Severity40
Downside Likelihood30
Dependency Risk40
Long-Term Alignment70
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